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Longfellow’s Guide to Writer’s Toil

LongfellowI guess he doesn't get much respect these days, Henry Wadsworth Longfellow. Although when most non-poets think of famous American poems, his greatest hits tend to crop up.

We never studied Longfellow in school but I'm a bit fond of the furry fellow. Years ago when visiting some family who had moved to the 'burbs of Boston, we would occasionally get a wintertime feast in the town of Sudbury at  The Wayside Inn, a place I absolutely loved because it was colonial-old and quietly writerly. Longfellow stayed there on occassion and published Tales of a Wayside Inn in 1863.

Their website explains it well:

Longfellow's Wayside Inn is proud to be the oldest operating Inn in the
country, offering comfort and hospitality to travelers along the Boston
Post Road since 1716.

How quaint is the horse-bound journey of the poet finding this inn like a port in a storm? Pretty f*ing quaint, I thought. Add to that an old timey dining room with some old timey vittles. You had me at words New England Oysters.

Years later I visited Plymouth and Concord Massachusetts with friends over Thanksgiving weekend and we made a trip to see not only Cranberry World but Longfellow's house, now a National Park Service site, near Harvard Square in Boston. Unfortunately it was closed for the holiday weekend but we did pick up some buttons offered in a box at the front gate, buttons with Longfellow's image and the declaration: "I'm a poet too!"

To this day, that is my favorite button.

So I have mixed feelings about Longfellow. Poets beat him up for being an imitator of the English Romantics. But…I have that button and he had good taste in motels. 

Also, while reading Hand of the Poet, I came across a poem that spoke to me as a toiler of verse. It was the poem "A Psalm of Life." You know, the one where he coined the term "footprints in the sands of time."

(By the way, what cliche have you coined lately?)

The poem goes as follows:

    TELL me not, in mournful numbers,

        Life is but an empty dream ! —

    For the soul is dead that slumbers,

        And things are not what they seem.

    Life is real !   Life is earnest!

        And the grave is not its goal ;

    Dust thou art, to dust returnest,

        Was not spoken of the soul.

    Not enjoyment, and not sorrow,

        Is our destined end or way ;

    But to act, that each to-morrow

        Find us farther than to-day.

    Art is long, and Time is fleeting,

        And our hearts, though stout and brave,

    Still, like muffled drums, are beating

        Funeral marches to the grave.

    In the world's broad field of battle,

        In the bivouac of Life,

    Be not like dumb, driven cattle !

        Be a hero in the strife !

    Trust no Future, howe'er pleasant !

        Let the dead Past bury its dead !

    Act,— act in the living Present !

        Heart within, and God o'erhead !

    Lives of great men all remind us

        We can make our lives sublime,

    And, departing, leave behind us

        Footprints on the sands of time ;

    Footprints, that perhaps another,

        Sailing o'er life's solemn main,

    A forlorn and shipwrecked brother,

        Seeing, shall take heart again.

    Let us, then, be up and doing,

        With a heart for any fate ;

    Still achieving, still pursuing,

        Learn to labor and to wait.

I guess it bears repeating:

  Let us, then, be up and doing,

        With a heart for any fate ;

    Still achieving, still pursuing,

        Learn to labor and to wait.

Think about that vis-à-vis your own life's efforts. I posted the following quote on my Facebook page last week after watching the documentary The War Room, a behind-the-scenes look at the campaign of Bill Clinton. After winning the election, James Carville, when congratulated for his successes in the campaign, gave this speech to his staff:

"There is a simple doctrine: outside of a
person's love, the most sacred thing that they can give is their labor.
And some how or another, along the way we tend to forget that. And labor
is a very precious thing that you have and anytime you can combine
labor with love, you've made a merger…people are gonna tell you you're
lucky. You're not. The harder you work, the luckier you get."

Growing up, I never believed it was honorable to be a writer. I thought it was a soft job, like being a philosopher or a politician. A thinker doesn't work. I believed that until the day I saw Mark Twain's typewriter in a museum in Hannibal, Missouri. In a single moment I realized writing is a physical act. Typing itself is labor. Writing is work.

Love the work and wait.

Take the virutal tour of Longfellow's house.

 

Movie Shorts Are Like Poems

ShortfilmsOne of my favorite things to do every year is to go see the Oscar nominated short films, both live action and animated. You can see short documentaries too. I enjoy seeing these more than I do full length movies anymore. They're beautiful, thoughtful, often surreal and well, quite simply poetic. I never cease to be inspired by them.

Last week, the Oscar lists came out and art houses all over the country have already started scheduling showings of all films. In Santa Fe, you can see them at The Screen starting Feburary 1.

Here is the full list of nominees. Usually you buy one ticket for all the animated short nominees (plus two or three "honorable mentions") and another ticket for all the live short nominees. It's well worth it. You can also find some of them on iTunes.

 

A Not-So-Old Book About Bernard Shaw

GbsMy job with IAIA ended at the end of 2012 (or so I thought). I was called back this Monday. In the interim, I returned to Highlands University library thinking I would have time to read over the next week or so. I picked up my search for writer biographies, although I abandoned the American section for the Brits.

This book about George Bernard Shaw, Bernard Shaw: A Life (2005) looked promising, mostly because I know nothing about GBS (as those in the know refer to him) aside from his play Pygmalion, or more specifically my viewings of My Fair Lady. But I always love a good GBS aphorism so I figure I should learn more about him.

The introduction descirbes him as having "an intelligent heart" and I'm already knee-deep in his wonder years in Dublin. Apparently, this biography suggests, GBS did a bit of fiddle-faddle with the characters in his autobiographies and I'm reading about all the woebegone biographers who've had to sort it all out.

    

Ask a Poet

CravatIntroducting the new column Ask a Poet!

Why live in the dark when you can ask a poet?

Do you think poets and their poems are mysterious, difficult or a bit cultish? Are there questions you have always wanted to ask a poet but have been too scared (or dreading the long-winded answer) to ask?

Well, lucky you are because in the vein of the ground-breaking syndicated column and book by Gustavo Arellano, “Ask a Mexican,” this is a place where you can stop tip-toeing around quirky poet relatives and friends and their notebooks of garden haikus and you can finally ask a poet.

Don’t be shy. There is no question too offensive, bewildered or cranky.

  

Archive of Questions Already Asked:

Poets and Money
Poets for Company in Desperate Situations
Poems Hurt My Head
Poetry Appreciation Affectations
Is Formal Verse Dead?
The Incontrovertible Evidence of Living Poets
The Poetry Vortex
Successful Poet Slackers
Hazing Poets
Badass Poets
The Face of Verse
Poets in Bed

Send all Ask a Poet Questions to mary@bigbangpoetry.com.

  

A Poet’s New Years Resolutions

  1. Set some writing goals and write poems.  I am halfway through the first draft of a new set and I'd like to finish them this year.
      
  2. ResolutionsBuy more poetry. Try eBooks if you can't afford the paper ones. Some eBooks can be purchased for 99-cents and many are under five dollars. I'm going to try to create a folder for my new eBooks on my computer and hopefully this will inspire me to pare down my Amazon wish list.
       
  3. Meet new poets socially. And not just to get some new ears and eyes hostage to your poems. Meet new poets because you are generally interested in having them in your life. Find some at local conventions or readings. Start a poetry reading group.
       
  4. Read a few biographies of poets. Check out your local library. I'll be back to Highlands University next week to comb through their library. I've done the American section; time to move on to the Europeans or South Americans.
       
  5. Start another writing project. Like a sorbet between courses, this might clear your head. I'm going to get back into my novel about Roy, New Mexico.
      
  6. Take a class. I'll be back at the community college extension this spring. Classes there are only 90 bucks each.
      
  7. Find a poetry journal you like and subscribe to it. I like American Poetry Review so that's my journal for this year.
      
  8. Submit your poems to some journals. I'm going to get back into doing this…and also reaching out to journals for reviewers for Why Photographers Commit Suicide.
      
  9. Tag some books of poetry on Amazon. If you truly believe in furthering the cause of poetry, then tag some books you love based on subject. This is the single greatest way non-poets can find our books. It's better than a review and with last year's scandal on Amazon over authors leaving negative reviews for competing books (and then getting all their reviews deleted), a safer use of your time.
      
  10. Connect with other people on social networks. Find both writers, readers and new friends. You want to connect with the world. The world wants to connect with you.


  

Ruth Padel and Anne Carson

DarwinWhile researching science poems a few months ago, I came across this book by Ruth Padel, Darwin, A Life in Poems. Ruth Padel is the great-great-granddaughter of Charles Darwin and this is her book-length telling of his life in verse, content based primarily on family stories and his letters.

I was interested in this book for two reasons: one, Padel is known for her poetic writing about science;  two, concerning a project I'm working on, I was interested to see how she would present the biography of a famous figure in verse using a long series of short poems.

The poems in this book are fluid and straightforward, yet they manage to draw out the irony and weighty points inherent in each step of Darwin's life. If I was expecting some epic tour de force, the poems are much more subdued, quiet and purposeful.

From "The Miser"

'Stones, coins, franks, insects, minerals and shells.'
     Collect yourself: to smother what you feel,
     recall to order, summon in one place,
making, like Orpheus, a system against loss.

From "How Do Species Recognize Their Mate"

     They meet, spread wings, display those peacock eyes,
that special patch of feathers, a flash or bar of black,
     gold, iridescent blue, so the neurons, synaptic terminals
and brain may recognize the I belong with you.

My favorite poems were "He Reads That the Membrane in a Goldfinch Egg is Proof of Divine Design," "On the Propagation of Mistletoe" (on a search for love), "The Free Will of an Oyster," "He Leaves a Message on the Edge," and "The Pond Spirit."

For some reason I can't quite pin down, the book reminded me of another of my favorite poets, Canadian Anne Carson. Maybe it has something subliminally to do with the Queen (as Padel is British) or the paperback packaging or the books' fonts. Maybe it's their shared diction of reserve, particularly unAmerican. I'm not at all sure. Although Padel is far less cryptic and academic than Carson. I love reading Anne Carson, although my lack of knowledge about classical literature makes me feel like much of the content is over my head. What I do manage to harvest from the pieces gives me good food.

BiographyofredMy first purchase was The Autobiography of Red and I remember reading it during my first depressing weeks in Los Angeles in March of 2002, months after 9/11 on the dreary back porch of a slum house in an area of Playa del Rey called The Jungle which overlooked the wetlands and the marinas of Marina del Rey. It was part of a dreary season in LA and I sat in the morning out on the concrete with a glass of water and escaped into in her long lines.

HusbandYears later I had moved to Mar Vista in the neighborhood cornered by the Sepulveda and Venice Boulevards living the occasional party life (whenever I was coerced by my roommate to do so) when I picked up The Beauty of the Husband: A Fictional Essay in 29 Tangos at the Los Angeles Times Festival of Books. I read the tale of a broken marriage while I was experiencing my own online-induced dating dramas.

This fall I read Glass, Irony and God, one section which weaves a breakup story with tales of Emily Brontë.

Publishers Weekly describes Carson this way:


GlassFusing confession, narrative and classicism, Carson's poetry witnesses
the collision of heart and mind with breathtaking vitality.

I think what I respond to is her exploding dissection of the mind with explanations of the heart. And that she's a writer I trust in some way, that I can relinquish the need to constantly understand and instead allow myself to float through a kind of innocent intake.

 

From "The Glass Essay"

Why keep watching?
Some people watch, that's all I can say.
There's nowhere else to go,

no ledge to climb up to.

The swamp water is frozen solid.
Bit of gold weed

have etched themselves
on the underside of the ice like messages.

 

A Book About The Artifacts of Poetry

HandYears ago, my friend and fellow poet Ann Cefola passed along to me a stack of poetry books, one of which was The Hand of the Poet, Poems and Papers in Manuscript put out by The New York Public Library, who own the massive Berg Collection of poet paraphernalia. I've had the book on my shelf for years and I finally decided to read it in October.

Judging by the packaging, I was worried the book would be pretentious or precious. But other than being an extremely hard book to hold up in bed, (and one that smarts when it topples over on you), I loved every minute of reading it. The photos of all the manuscripts (between John Donne and Julia Alvarez and 98 British and American poets in between) turned out to be the least of it. Every poet's pages included a concise and interesting overview, a drawing or photo, quotes from their contemporaries, and a sample or two of poetry.

The book serves as a fun overview of history, filling in poets you might not have come across in your travels. The samples piqued an interest in me for writers Kay Boyle and May Sarton which I hope to be digging into soon.

 

Reading More Poetry to Things That Don’t Care…Chaco Canyon

Since my trip to New York City, I've been sick with the flu. I was then swamped with Christmas duties. I missed all my holiday postings as a result. I was finally feeling better this week so I went with my two fur-kids and husband on a daytrip out to see Chaco Canyon in northeastern New Mexico. We stopped to see Georgia O'Keeffe's Black Place on the way and braved a snow-packed 16-mile washboarded dirt road out to the major historic ruin site of Choco. One poetry reading resulted.

Click to enlarge the remains of Pueblo Bonito, the cultural center of Chaco.

Chacocanyon

Mary McCray reading poetry to the ruins of Pueblo Bonito, the culture center not only of the prehistoric Chaco Canyon but to prehistoric cultures all throughout the southwest. Cultured or not, the 900-year old  ghosts of Chaco are not appreciating the 1960s Beat poets.  (2012, photo by John McCray)

See the full set of things that don't care about poetry

 

Top 10 Reasons Why Poets are Bad Party Guests

PopAre we skinny poets because we are shunned from dinner parties? There are ten reasons why poets make infamously bad party guests, described as follows:

  1. Poets, with their proverbial "head in the clouds," tend to get pedantic over cocktails and are often accused of being disconnected from reality (behind their backs, of course) and at worst, boring. And although most poets write poetry to convince the world they’re not, in fact, boring, this is the academic version of the man insisting on the first date,“I never hit women.” It's eerie and often disconnected from reality.
       
  2. Two words: Pretentious and Precious. Poets foolishly think they're more interesting than they actually are or think the things they love are more interesting and valuable than those things actually are to other people. It's only fair, really. Poets don't care about the obsessions of others or think everyone else is brilliant. Why should party people return the favor?
       
  3. Related issue: in extreme cases poets can be insufferably arrogant, often accused of “lording their thoughts over others.” They take a posture of being better informed, better read and better able to understand the subtle nuances. They aggressively question everyone’s ideas in order to grandstand their own. This is a bad arguing posture and 9 out of 10 Playboy models would include this in their top list of turnoffs. This will not get you laid. Why would it? Who likes being shit upon? This arrognce suraces in anyone who responds to your comments with useless condescending prefaces such as “Listen my friend….” which is presumptous because you are not anybody's friend yet.
         
  4. Also related: poets who use obscure references in conversation in order to feel superior. I’ve seen this trick at parties and corporate meetings. You try to use complicated sentence structure and arcane words to fool others into thinking you are really saying something. Some people write entire poems this way. You may be fooling some dim bulbs in the room but not the other literates (who are probably there on the down-low) who actually know how to diagram a sentence and have figured out pretty quick that your blather doesn't contain both a subject and a predicate.  Boob.
      
  5. Poets love to talk; listening gives them heartburn. If this describes you, stay at home and talk to yourself. It’s a big world out there. People are having conversations. It’s not all about you.
      
  6. Goth drunks. There's absolutely nothing wrong with being a Goth drunk but usually they only party well with other Goth drunks.
      
  7. Poets are known for lacking in fashion sense. I admit I have none. We have no mental energy left over for that sort of thing and most partiers will give you a pass on this. After all, they already think you are clueless.
     
  8. Poets are known for having a bad sense of humor. This one really hurts. Even poets who think they are pretty damn funny…in the cold light of day, they are pretty amateurish compared to the deft comedic acrobatics of our top comedic bards like Daniel Tosh or Trey Parker and Matt Stone. Hell, Mark Twain can still kick their ass with his well-crafted comedy. So I usually sound pathetic if I try to offer myself up as a funny bard. No one believes me.
      
  9. Poets are uncorrectable, the stubborn type of person who will read items 1-8 above and say, “Who cares about your stupid bourgeoisie parties anyway!"
        
  10. Poets are sensitive. After a few cold shoulders, they might make a suicidal gesture over the bannister, but not before a very wordy, rambling soliloquy.

Stereotypes? Yes. Hurtful? Yes. But as long as poets still behave this way at parties, they will continue to be unpopular and not even get invited to social gatherings in book form, which is the real sad situation.

However, we can get back on the social calendar if we take stock before every social encounter and focus on some new social tactics. As Andrea Lunsford says, Everything’s an Argument. To impress people that you are a funny, brilliant poet you need to sell your argument. And to do that you need:

  1. Mad arguing skillz
  2. Panache

Short of that, try modesty, curiosity, listening, a little itty-bit of affection for that innocent body your words are hitting.

    

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