Reinventing the Life of a Poet in the Modern World

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Mindfulness: Why Poets Should Care

Tree-headHave you ever considered talking a mindfulness course if you’re a poetry teacher? This article in Community College Week tells you why you should.

Have you ever considered taking a mindfulness course if you’re a writer?

Did you know it can:

– improve your ability to focus
– orient your attention
– improve your working memory
– decrease your anxiety, depression and anger
-  improve planning and organization

– improve relationships
– improve empathy

A couple of things come in to play here when we critique different styles of poets and their aggravations with other styles of poetry:

  • focus
  • attention
  • working memory
  • organization skills
  • anxiety and
  • empathy.

This mental stuff affects our poems and it affects how we critique other people's poems. Read more at Community College Weekly.

  

10 Ways To Be A Better Poetry Reader

EdourdManetDignified reading: Edouard Manet's The Reader

For many, it's a challenge to be habitually reading poetry. If you were a student of poetry in college (like me), you were often given a list of recommended poetry works by your esteemed professors. Why was it always so impossible to penetrate these lists?

Because another person's list is simply that: another person's journey, not yours. Their list is all about them. And you need to build your own list, a list that is all about you! That’s the journey of life and it's the same with poetry.

You need to find your own way. And I can tell you that once you do, reading poetry becomes something you look forward to, if not an all-consuming adventure.

Start by thinking about your own interests and obsessions. As you search for books to read, one title or article will lead to another and, before you know it, you’ll have a lengthy list of poetry to find and read. Find those titles that connect with you. Soon it will start feeling like a quest.

1. Explore by Style

Are you’re interested in perfecting your own poetic style or exploring the tricks other poets are using? Are you looking for new ideas of craft? You can search for books of poetry based on style. Look for classical formalists writing in rhyme, meter or particular forms like ghazals or sestinas. I went through a phase of trying to figure out why sonnets were so satisfying in length and I can’t pass up a crown of them.  Anthologies can help you find writers who are working in particular forms. You can also follow conceptual poets this way as well, poets working with types of automatic or computer-generated content, poets who have developed various experiments of chance and theory.

2. Topic Quest

Are you interested in psychological topics, historical topics, scientific topics? Are you interested in books about a particular place? Do you want to read food poems, murder poems, ghost poems, cowboy poems, Zen poems? I have gone through searches on all of these topics over the years. I even have a very eclectic taste for pop-culture poems that mention singer-actress Cher. Whatever your obsession may be, there are poems out there for you.

3. Meet the People

Soon you'll find your favorite poets and will want to read all their books. You might be swayed by the cult of celebrity and want to read books by poets who make the news or win awards. You can also develop your own quirky explorations. Recently, I’ve been buying the books of faculty poets at every college or university I visit. My sister-in law likes to buy t-shirts from colleges all over the country; I buy books of faculty poetry. I make an extra stop at the university bookstore in every town I visit. Essentially it’s about meeting people and hearing what they have to say. You can figure out a map-of-meeting that interests you.

4. Fancy a Publisher

Sometimes you find you like a certain publisher and the way they publish their books. You like their paper or binding style, their cover artwork, or the type of works they publish. Something about their style amuses your sensibilities or you appreciate their political, cultural or social mission. As a fan of a publisher, you can explore their catalog.

5. Support Your Friends

Sooner or later, we all have friends who publish. At least many of our teachers have already published. I try to buy all the books my friends publish and at least one book by all my teachers and published acquaintances. Yes, sometimes it's about your karmic bank account. But it’s also about listening to your friends and appreciating what they do. Knee-jerk support combats natural feelings of competitiveness, jealously and superiority.

6. Follow Your Sensibilities

Each generation has sensibilities: diner culture sensibilities of the 1950s, Beatles-era sensibilities of the 1960s, New Wave and GenX sensibilities of the 1980s. It’s not quite a style; it’s not quite a topic. It’s about experiences, living with old or new technologies, processing changes and modernity, and how your generation consumes and makes sense of it all. Because I’m a GenXer, I tend to seek out poets who write about pop culture, feminism and identity in an ironic, irreverent ways.

7. Poetry Readings

If you go to a poetry reading, which 99% of the time is a free experience, buy the poet’s book. I’d even say whether you like it or not. No one's getting rich here. If you support the cause, support the cause. You just might be surprised what treasures you bring home. And a book that doesn't speak to you now may speak to you in 10 years. I’m often dismayed to hear poets brag about supporting their local economies at the grocery store but they can’t seem to bring themselves to do it at the local book store.

8. Unlikely Places

Be on the lookout for poetry in unlikely places: garage sales, art shows, history museums, local city museums. I found a poet in a local city museum in Bandon, Oregon, during a family reunion. The woman who wrote the book was about the age of my mother and had experienced a remarkably similar childhood as my mother had on the coast of Oregon. Finding that book enabled me to understand my mother’s experience in a fresh way. (I also found a picture of my grandfather on the wall at that museum!)

9. Recommendations

As I mentioned earlier, recommendations are often problematic but, once in a while, a friend will let you in on a great, secret find. I’ve been sent boxes of books by friends and it sometimes takes me years to get to a book. I can't tell you how many times I've cried out, “Book! Where have you been all my life??” and fretted that I hadn't made my way to the book sooner. But that’s how life is: stuff comes to you when it comes to you. Also be on the lookout for recommendations in journals, online and from reviews in old newspapers.

10. Free Books!

Big tip time: don’t assume everything marked "Free" is worthless. Don’t be a hoarder but take a book or two from the free pile at events, garage sales and those boxes on the stoops of used book stores. Give it a shot and see what you find. It’s like supermarket surprise!

Soon you’ll find that one book truly does lead to another and another. You can look for ideas in bookstores, literary journals, poetry anthologies, poetry textbooks, publisher catalogs like Copper Canyon's seasonal catalog. I’ve found a few amazing Zen books there. You should also be open to finding poetry in museums, on TV shows, or from teachers in other disciplines. My mindfulness teacher used to start each week’s class with a poem!

Without opening yourself up to finding new poetry, you'll miss out on reading friendships, surprising epiphanies and the amazing journey of reading your books.

  

Twain and Place Endure Black Eyes While Confronting Issues About Race in America

TwainFisticuffs: Mark Twain and Vanessa Place Endure Black Eyes While Confronting (Sometimes Their Own) Issues About Race in America

Sometimes the literary community is so up its own derriere that it makes it hard to sort out what's what.  Vanessa place, described in articles as an academic, white woman, has been doing a performative literary project around the text of Margaret Mitchell’s Gone with the Wind, specifically the racist parts (although she’s slowly tweeting the whole damn thing), to question whether the heirs of Margaret Mitchell should be making money off of a work that has come to be seen as very racist.  A backlash occurred from allegedly from both black and white communities and Place was let go from a judging position with AWP.

Aaminah Shakur from Hyper Allergic tries to explain, "why a white poet should not be attempting to reclaim the 'N-word'"  claiming that Place is “someone engaging in offensive racism and Blackface.”

First off, I'm confused. Why do we accuse Place of perpetuating racism for a performance piece trying to alert us to the continued profits derived from racism?  Is Shakur misreading the piece? Or refusing to read it on its figurative levels.

Let’s start with the piece. Place is tweeting the entire novel to try to get the Margaret Mitchell heirs to make attempts to stop her in the name of copyright infringement. This will force them to admit they’re making money off the racist novel. Honestly, all this is small fish when you consider the money being made for Hollywood studios from all those classic movies made in the era of bold-faced racism. We live in a capitalist society. Nothing gets aired without someone making a buck. Sure, we can stop watching them. After all, those films get more and more disturbing each year. I went to college in St. Louis and for our first class in film studies, the teacher played us D.W. Griffith’s Birth of a Nation without any context. Cut to class two and we were all pretty offended by the racist parts. And this was in St. Louis, Missouri! In 1990! For those of you who don’t know, Ferguson is basically a suburb of the St. Louis metro area. So that was saying something.

But maybe we should be made to revisit sexist, racist, abusive history to remind ourselves that such things as bad human behavior are always on the verge of existence. Try to erase your past and you will be doomed to repeat it, don't they say? There’s a caveat that what we do when we revisit these racist spaces is to have a discussion about them in order to understand the insidious, sometimes hidden aspects of racism and how it works. Hopefully, this knowledge will helps us stop being racist. Many are accusing Place of not providing this context. However, she’s engaging in a somewhat stark performance piece. She’s not running a college forum.

The Daily Beast says that AWP’s particular issue was “unmediated quotes of Margaret Mitchell’s novel.” So okay, context would be better…well, I guess that depends on your performance piece. What I don’t understand is the accusation that Place can’t perform issues of race because she is part of academia (privileged) and a white person. The Daily Beast broke that issue down, saying “If Place lost one of her privilege badges—if she wasn’t white and an 'in academia'—would her attack on racism have more credibility?”

Do you see what’s happened there? Are you looking closely? Performing the piece has become itself a performance piece!

The Daily Beast quotes “professional provocateur” Place as saying,

“I’ve been thinking about the ways this concept works for six years, so it shouldn’t surprise me that people who have thought about it for six days, or six minutes, have a different view of it,” Place said of her detractors, noting that her Gone With the Wind Twitter feed only had 1,200 followers and the petition had 2,200 signatures. At least half of those who signed it may not have even seen her project. “That said, the literary world does seem to take things pretty literally,” she added.

This literal/figurative disconnect must sound familiar to all Mark Twain scholars. We hear the same controversy and charge of racist leveled at Mark Twain for his depiction of Jim in parts of The Adventures of Huckleberry Finn and for the heavy use of the N-word (which also matches the issue with Mitchell’s tome). Most Twain scholars will tell you, (and if you read the figurative level of the novel you can see), that Twain’s project for the novel was to challenge racist ideas. These included slave-holding attitudes, Jim Crow attitudes and, in hindsight we know, some of Twain's own racism. Which is to say he was trying hard NOT to be racist but ended up being racist in parts of the book anyway. 

Is that the worst thing that can happen? It seems to me the larger project for Twain and for all of us was the bare fact that he was trying to write through the process of becoming an anti-racist. In fact, much of his work supports anti-rasicm. The problem is he does this so imperfectly. Although his essay writing and political commentary was clearly anti-racist, his novels are too obscure. They’re not ever explicit enough in their racial messaging. At times he panders to racists. At other times, he confronts them with their inhumanity. He writes through it in the same way he writes through American Imperialism in Connecticut Yankee in King Arthur's Court.

The truth is Twain was born into a community whose cultural biases were racist and it took him time and effort to evolve his thinking away from those beliefs. He did what few of us have the balls to do, he worked through all this publicly. He was a once-poor, ultimately-successful white man imperfectly writing to address racism in America. The fact that his work opens up conversations about race every day, (which we say we need), seems lost on everybody.

Listen, people will always criticize controversial things they’ve never read, viewed or investigated, (heck, I do that with the Bible all the time), but that’s why I’m so thankful there are black scholars of Mark Twain who have read the books. Watch the Ken Burns documentary to see for yourself. Some people will also refuse to see the figurative level. Biological studies in mindfulness and meditation tell us know that some people have a physiologically harder time even seeing figurative levels. They consistently resist seeing metaphors, symbols and ironies working in any art piece. This is the same phenomenon I see happening with Vanessa Place's piece.

Black academics, black political leaders, social workers, presidents (!) have all been calling for national conversations about race and the response needs to come from everybody: black people who continue to experience racism on the street and white people who need to work through it within their possibly mixed and often racially one-sided communities. Yes, white academics should be the forefront in talking about race…even imperfectly. Maybe especially imperfectly. As if black discussions are race are perfect. They’re not. They’re full of personal bias and emotion, just like everyone else’s.

Our freakout over this piece just shows what mixed messages we continue to send. We complain about the dearth of white people writing about race. We say that white writers were stuck in an ignorant bliss of white privilege. White writers complain that they're too scared to dare to write about race for fear of being criticized and ostracized.  And apparently this is not an irrational fear.

I don’t think we’ve proven by any stretch that Place is a racist artist. But it’s a good question because it begs the next question: if you’re trying to expose racism, so what if you’re a racist. In fact, even better if you’re a racist. Because we can't have it both ways. We can't keep calling out the problem like a pack of victims and then villainize anyone who steps out to poke the monster with a small stick.

My husband in another life was involved with Chicago theater. He said a good performance piece is the one that makes people mad and gets a conversation going. You might say Place has succeeded. You might say AWP is a big performance piece of itself, all of us actors in the big piece called Wrangling Racism.  

According to The Daily Beast, the AWP says, “The group’s work must focus on the adjudication of the 1,800 proposals, not upon the management of a controversy that has stirred strong objections and much ill-will toward AWP and the subcommittee.” Which is another issue in itself.

Can you even imagine an established literary group with some stones?

PlaceI don’t know Place personally or her work well enough to say what kind of character she is. I can say my interpretation of the work is anti-racist and I will support any white artist taking on issues of race. I don’t support  the clusterfuck of criticism we seem to be indulging in.

Ironically, this news story coincides with a Supreme court decision on a Faceook murder-threat trial and the difference between perception and intent and what necessary for a jury instruction in a criminal case. There's a difference between perceived threat and intent. What's more important? Which gets priority? It’s probably one of the more crucial legal issues of our time, what with scary Stand Your Ground laws and online bullying. Weighing these two points of view has real implications on our lives and for our work.

So you should take some time to really think about it.

 

More Stories:

Hyper Allergic against Place: http://hyperallergic.com/208995/why-a-white-poet-should-not-be-attempting-to-reclaim-the-n-word/

In support: http://www.thedailybeast.com/articles/2015/05/28/does-tweeting-gone-with-the-wind-make-this-poet-racist.html

Arguments about arguments, if you care to go there: http://www.thestranger.com/blogs/slog/2015/05/26/22275249/a-poet-defending-vanessa-place-equates-signers-of-the-petition-against-her-with-the-cop-who-killed-mike-brown (The Stranger)

   

You Are Biased (and more heavily than you know)

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For the last three years I have been doing the NaPoWriMo challenge. In this challenge, you write a poem a day for the full month of April. For the first year, I was all free form, meaning only that I was free to explore any form I wanted to experiment with. The second year I did a project called “30 Poems About Language” inspired by a modern poetry MOOC and the modernist and language poems I was reading in that online class.

This year, in response to readings I’ve been doing for my web content strategy and/ social media marketing job tasks and a pilot class on mindfulness I had attended at Central New Mexico Community College, I decided to do a set of cognitive bias poems called “30 Poems About Suffering.” I would pick a cognitive bias from the Wikipedia list and address that bias with mindfulness techniques (and also something from the news of the day to try to prove I wasn’t writing ahead). Incorporating the news turned out to be the hardest part. There were other technical challenges, one poem itself explaining why there are only 29 poems.

Turns out cognitive biases so crucial to understanding why we don’t agree with other writers (or humans) about politics, art and and day-to-day life. The site The Hipper Element posted a great video this week explaining the power of our mental biases:

“Watch a smart, adult man UNLEARN his intuition about how to ride a bike. Then RELEARN it. Then watch his 6-year-old son do it in a fraction of the time. This video is so relevant to UX [and political strategists and artists and writers], it’s hard to know where to start. As UX designers our job is to unlearn our own intuition, so we can design for people who think differently. But it takes a lot of effort, and it’s hard to undo.” Watch the video.

Here are my 2015 NaPoWriMo "30 Poems About Suffering:"

  1. The Confirmation Bias
  2. The False Consensus Bias
  3. The False Memory Effect
  4. The Curse of Knowledge and The Curse of Knowledge
  5. The Dunning-Kruger Effect
  6. The Next-in-Line Effect
  7. Functional Fixedness
  8. Illusory Superiority
  9. The Google Effect
  10. The Endowment Effect
  11. The Flaw Line
  12. Just-World Hypothesis
  13. Leveling and Sharpening Error
  14. Exaggerated Expectation
  15. Hot-Hand Fallacy
  16. Pareidolia
  17. Rhyme as Reason
  18. Hindsight Bias
  19. Barnum Effect
  20. The Bizarreness Effect & The Serial Position Effect
  21. Tip of the Tongue & Zeigarnik Effect
  22. The Empathy Gap
  23. The IKEA Effect
  24. Omission Bias & Post-Purchase Rationalization
  25. The Unit Bias
  26. Social Desirability Bias
  27. Reactance & Reactive Devaluation
  28. Irrational Escalation
  29. Bias Blind Spot

And yet there' smore information about biases! Culturally, we’re very biased about color.As a poet, this is good to know:

“This graph from Information is beautiful shows what color most commonly represents what emotion across cultures. Look at number 84: Wisdom. In Japanese and Hindu cultures wisdom is purple, while it is brown in Native American and blue in Eastern European. Or Love, which is Red in the Western world yet green in Hindu, yellow in Native American, and blue in African cultures.”

From the blog post on Pickcrew. Click on the color wheel at the top of this post to view the full spectrum of cultural biases on color.

  

The Student Art and Poets of CNM

StatuePolice Brutality Art

I have not connected yet to my local poetry scene in the ABQ. Being slightly hermitish, I need a somewhat more outgoing friend to assist in my branch out. In Santa Fe I did attend two or three readings given by a local poetry society but it was always a trial to drag along Monsieur Big Bang and I never felt comfortable going alone. It's not like poets are overly friendly at such things. Mr. BB did attend a recent Central New Mexico Community College (CNM) author’s event with me to see guest reader Arthur Sze. 

CNM is not an art or liberal arts school. The school started as a technical college and has retained its core identity as a trade school. However, the death of Freddie Gray in Baltimore and the resulting riots against police violence did manage to inspire an art piece here that captured the attention on local news. To repeat, the controversial art piece came not  from the Art Institute of Santa Fe, or the Institute of American Indian Arts  or from the big boy, UNM. No, the controversial piece came from CNM. Joshua Gonzales was one of the artists who made the piece out of plastic and tape. View the news piece

BackgropCyber Nimbus Melodies

Meanwhile, I’ve been working with a CNM English professor on a large web-content project and recently came across some recent video work he’s been involved in with his poetry students. Patrick Houlihan hosted a well-made video poetry reading called Cyber Nimbus Melodies.

Seven or so students read about five poems a piece in our production studio. Some awesome green screen backgrounds were used (explosive lightning, fire explosions, a pastoral kitchen scene). The sound quality and lighting gave these readings some pop. The fact is I would have loved the opportunity to practice reading during my undergraduate OR graduate school years. But YouTube wasn’t even a gleam in the Internet’s eye back then. Forget about having a full production studio we could have access to. Imagine this being a class requirement! 

Backgrop2There are also some interesting poems here. Donald Seals’ piece “The Voice of Slavery” has a surprise ending. Elements of mindfulness and lives transforming populate his pieces. Dennis Noel had a great reading delivery and I loved his poem about pride and false self-esteem called “A Deadly Sin.” He also invoked Edward Munch, fractals and Zoloft. Fabulous!

Some of the poets became emotional while reading, including Tanya  Gonzales (who quotes Marcel Proust about suffering in a poem that ended strong called “Good Grief”) and Reynaldo Garcia. I liked his poem “I Am Learning.” Claire Rutland had a strong one called “Buried Alive” and a untitled poem about issues of communication. Will Vega did a poem in Spanish and talked about willpower. And Josiah Ruanhorse was full of piss and vinegar in long pieces about ancestry and sobriety. Of all the poets, I probably disagreed the most with the content of his pieces (being a working woman and all), but I’d like to check back with him in 20 years and see where he's at then with his political views.

Many of the poets covered themes appropriate to young college students: pressing on, perseverance, failed love relationships, loss and students composed plenty of formal pieces for those naysayers who believe that kids today aren’t learning their forms.

As a poetry reader or writer, it’s important to hear the sounds of different voices, literally. This is the most powerful aspect of an open reading for me. In this "me-me-me" culture—we should always try to practice the art of seeing another person and listening to their physical voice.

The Literary Magazine Reading

CNM’s production studio also posted a video recording of the literary magazine launch.

If there’s one thing I’ve learned in New Mexico, poet's here love marathon readings. Each one I’ve ever attended has stretched to at least 2 hours. But this video gives you a good sense of what college poetry readings are all about. A prominent ABQ slam poet named Don McIver begins the reading after Patrick Houlihan does an initial introduction. Houlihan speaks of poems as “brain prints on paper,” as unique as fingerprints. He also talks a bit about the project of putting the magazine together.

I guess I'm beginning to recognize poet faces. I’d just seen McIver a month ago doing a reading at a local showing of the 1980s William Burroughs biopic.

As far as readings go, I like to see what people wear. I saw everything from a Scorpions band t-shirt to sparkly party tops. I don’t know if it’s the Spanish influence here in New Mexico but a lot of the kids invoke the element of blood in their poems. This reminds me of the Spanish poets I like who tend to be more fully connected with ideas of the body and mortality.

While I was at IAIA, there were no student readings that I can remember. This might be because the student literary magazine had to be recalled the year I was there due to egregious layout issues. I managed to keep my copy and blogged about it. I haven’t read the CNM magazine yet but will post more about that soon.

   

Frustrations of Genres / Poetry News

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I'm in kind of void of postings because I'm on the cusp of a review of New Mexico poetry anthologies, a new new poll and a new list. None of those are ready yet so I suppose this is a good time to talk about the frustration of genres.

My first book of poems struggled for over 20 years to find publication. Although I would read the poems in workshops and at conferences and receive unbelievably positive feedback, something was wrong.

I say that because the level of positive response only confused me in light of the fact that I couldn't get this book any traction. A former editor of Graywolf Press even raved to my face about the poems at a Colrain conference eons ago. But contests and publishers were not interested. Twenty years of contest fees add up to that fact.

Was it the way I read them? I suck at readings so that definitely was not the case.

Meanwhile, a few years ago Graywolf itself published a book of science poems by Tracy K. Smith called Life on Mars, a book that went on to win a Pulitzer Prize. My book was titled almost the same thing in one of its incarnations. In fact my 1997 thesis at Sarah Lawrence might be named something like that.

But my poems are different thank Smiths, our Mars subject aside. My poems are about the idea of U.S. manifest destiny as it pertains to our dream of colonizing Mars. Sounds like science fiction doesn't it and what literary publisher would like to publish anything slightly tainted with the stamp of SciFi. Answer: none.

Science fiction publishers didn’t appreciate the book either. Because it wasn't science fiction.

Thank God, technology in my lifetime has allowed me to pull my own project to fruition (self-publish) and move on with my life.

I'm only reminded of all this because last week USA Today published a story about how Elon Musk plans Seattle office for Mars colonization.  The poems in Why Photographer’s Commit  Suicide are based on Michael Collins’ book about similar plans to colonize Mars.

I now worry that my second book will suffer the same tragic fate. It’s another mashup book only this time its a mashup of Buddhism and cowboy stories.  Cowboy stories. Oh dear. Sounds like cowboy poetry. Another literary poetry problem child. Such a throwback. Although they're not cowboy poems!

WfPoetry in the News

Philip Levine who explored the working lives of American people. (The Independent)

Should the poet laureate have to write about the royal birth? (The Guardian)

William Faulkner Makes Us Wonder: What's So Great About Poetry, Anyhow? (NPR)

Palm Tree and the Poetry of M.S. Merwin (The New Yorker)

Yeats’ 150th Birthday Parties (The Guardian)

British punk poet Dr. John Cooper Clarke hits U.S. at last (SF Examiner)

Arthur Sze Finalist for Pulitzer Prize (Albuquerque Journal)

Documents confirm fascists murdered Spanish poet Federico Garcia Lorca (World Socialist Web Site)

From the archive, 27 April 1915: Editorial: A Poet’s Death; The death of Rupert Brooke leaves us with a miserable sense of waste and futility, yet it is impossible to withhold even the most precious personalities (The Guardian)

Alissa Quart, The Money Poet (The New Yorker)

    

Hard Times for Poets: Quotes and Stories to Keep You Going

FauklknerSome quotes to keep you hanging in there as a writer when you feel like giving up!

“It does not matter how slowly you go as long as you do not stop.” – Confucius

“Fall down seven times, get up eight!” –  Japanese Proverb

“The man who moves a mountain begins by carrying away many small stones.” –  Confucius again!

 

 

And some more ridiculous reviews:

 “The final blowup of what was once a remarkable, if minor, talent.”

–  Clifton Fadiman, The New Yorker on Absolom, Absolum! by William Faulkner, 1936

 “…a book of the season only…”

–  New York Herald Tribune  

“The Great Gatsby falls into the class of negligible novels”
–  Springfield Republican on The Great Gatsby F. Scott Fitzgerald, 1925

“Monsieur Flaubert is not a writer.” 

– La Figaro on Madame Bovary Gustave Flaubert 1857

 

From Bill Henderson's Rotten Reviews

   

The Biology of Narcissism and Mindfulness and What It Means For Poets

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Poetry writing is a field where everyone is on a mad mission to distinguish themselves from everybody else. The popular complaint among poets is that everybody writes but nobody reads. It’s true that reading someone else’s writing is a compassionate act and not too many writers are on a mission of compassion. They're on a mission of self-esteem. It's exhausting and Kristin Neff is a scientist who has given a Ted Talk on compassion versus self-esteem. She talks about how the self-esteem movement has contributed to the narcissism epidemic and how this contributes to bullying in various populations and the great American fear of being average.

You see the self-esteem drama everywhere: on TV advertising, interacting with drivers on the street, in awful news stories. I see it in MFA ads for poetry programs. In fact, there's a new game in town: tapping into a student's ego to lure them into the program. In Poets & Writers issue January/February 2015 there's an add full of published books with a blank space reading, “The Place for our Next Book is Here” (meaning you!) and in APR's last issue there is an ad stating “Before you write your success story, you have to find your voice.” It's all about your success story! Wow.

These are topics I cover in Writing in the Age of Narcissism. For years, advertising has been banking on our narcissistic tendencies, our self-obsession and our desire for fame and to consider ourselves above average. 

View the Ted Talk: The Space Between Self Esteem and Self Compassion: Kristin Neff at TEDx Centennial Park Women

More quotes on the topic:

And I'm not the only poet talking about this. Bianca Stone (daughter of Ruth Stone) says, “I’ve always been drawn to science, especially neuroscience. I feel that poets look at the world so differently because of something to do with the way their brains are wired." Bianca Stone, Poets & Writers, January/February 2015

In his essay "Casting Stones" on the Mary Kay Letourneau story called Charles D’Ambrosio talks about the “reflective rush to judge” and “threadbare or disingenuous language which failed to allow for the possibility that [the case] was both simpler and more complex than they were prepared to understand or admit…My felling was, first you sympathize, then you judge – that’s a complex human response. You sympathize first, and until that happens, you don’t understand anything.” Quoted in Poets & Writers, November/December 2014

Read more quotes about writing and narcissism here: http://www.marymccray.com/writing-in-the-age-of-narcissism.html#writers 

Inspired by this, I've decided to embrace my average-ness. I’m an average working writer. And that’s okay. In fact, that’s pretty respectable.

   

It’s That Time of Year: World Poetry Day, National Poetry Month

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It's spring and poems are in the air!

The Poetry Month poster for 2015 is out from the Academy of American Poets. I've already hung mine (which I received as a member but you can request a free one here) on my office wall and have already received comments about it from artists in the office who walk by and recognize the work of Roz Chast. She illustrated a Mark Strand poem. 

Which reminds me that April is also the month for the NaPoWriMo 30 poems in 30 days challenge. This will be my third year participating in this very exhausting gauntlet of poetry writing.

Every year I say I'm going to use the site's prompts and every year I'm itching to work on some other idea. I was going to try to do 30 "addresses" inspired by Kenneth Koch's book New Addresses which I read last year on my eReader.

But since I've been working at CNM and studying both user architecture and design and mindfulness and its cognitive science, I've decided on doing a project that melds both the Wikipedia list of cognitive biases and mindfulness practices. The project is called "31 Poems of Suffering."

Poems will be posted, as usual, daily on Hello Poetry. You can view poems from past year's challenges here, too: http://hellopoetry.com/mary-mccray/

 

News about World Poetry Day: http://www.cnn.com/2015/03/21/living/feat-world-poetry-day/ (CNN)

   

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